Comments: What are you, gay?

Hey Asad,

wow, I'm not even going to try dissecting your emotional state, especially since I can't figure out my own let alone anyone else's, but it seems that a lot of the things that you talk about I experience too, just in a slightly different context. I agree that feeling comfortable around someone is really important, but I also know that you have to be both physically and mentally attracted to those you seek romantically. I think that a lot of your doubts come from what you have experienced up to this point, and while this may be valid, I think that there is more to come that you can not rationalize or decide upon until it comes. This is not to say that you shouldn't pursue meeting new people who you are romantically interested in, but you should just let yourself live life without being to preoccupied with you rationality, emotions are completely irrational.

Oh and I was really unclear as to your current position with your parents, has it changed? Anywho I'm sure I'll talk to you soon enough good luck on finals and on your boat, it looks good! And by the way, I always feel much more comfortable around those who I'm not attracted to, but being comfortable is not enough anyway comfort will grow over time no matter who you're around.

Posted by ordaos at May 26, 2003 11:24 AM
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